Supermum did ALL of her Christmas shopping yesterday morning in just 4 hours!!! Its a record, but not very wise! Next year I will be like all those mums I admire so much, who do their Christmas shopping months in advance. The 'wise' men carried their gifts for months while they travelled to see Jesus, ready with gifts before they went on their holiday.
It really is mums who make Christmas special. All the preparation for presents, food, decorations. When I was a kid, it was so magical to wake up on Christmas morning and see presents piled under the tree. My little brother and I would be up first, peeking through the wrapping, and we'd wait til everyone was up. All four of us kids would be ripping off the colourful paper, which would cover the room by the end of it. We'd always love all our toys and have something to play with for the rest of summer. And Mum had orchestrated it all! Thank you Mum for making Christmas so special for us, beautiful memories to cherish.
So, well done Mums for all you have done and all you are about to do.
Here is my gift to you ... a link to a beuatiful blog about a designer mum who takes gorgeous photos of her bub while she is asleep. Have a look, they are lovely ...
http://milasdaydreams.blogspot.com/p/about-blog.html Click on the video.
Have a wonderful Christmas! And you are very welcome to check out the blog that Mark and I have begun - about the excess exchange - its a 40 day journey for the heart, starting today ...
http://notwant.blogspot.com/
Friday, December 24, 2010
Saturday, December 4, 2010
Creative Parenting
There's something quite freeing about realising that you're the parent and you can decide the way things are going to be for your family. You don't have to do things the way they've always been done, you don't have to do what you're parents did, though they probably did a great job and have lots of wisdom, you don't have to do what everyone else is doing or what the latest book says. There is so much wisdom to be gained by parenting books, and believe me, there have been many times of desperation eating up every parenting book I can find! And it's so wise to ask advice and to glean from those supermums you see around you.
But how wonderful, that in the end, God entrusted you with your kids and you get to make up the rules. You get to make the culture of your family. You get to dream how you want it to be - whether you want to home school, grow your own vegies and teach the kids to make their own clothes and knit blankets for the poor, or maybe you want to send them to the best high tech schools to become brainy heart surgeons, or to just be normal, suburban loving families like most of us - its all good. But what do you want for your family?
God gave us an imagination and creativity - he reminds you of it everyday in the faces of your children who are each unique in looks, personality and demeanor... and temptations. And each of them requires something different from you too, whether to be soft in discipline or strong, whether to laugh when they trip, or to hug... seriously my little girl used to say when she fell over "it didn't hurt, it was fun!"
I love that God made us creative, but we also need to be discerning, what is God's Spirit speaking into your heart about your kids when you take the time to listen?
He has creative amazing answers for your kids, creative ways to have fun, creative ways to train, creative ways to teach and to dream with them. He loves your kids so much. He loves them so much that He made you their mum - because He knows that you and only you can be the mum he needs you to be for them.
You have what it takes! What can you do differently this week? What do you need to apply creativity to? God has an amazing future for your family, and He has an amazing NOW for your family too.
Much blessings,
Sarah
But how wonderful, that in the end, God entrusted you with your kids and you get to make up the rules. You get to make the culture of your family. You get to dream how you want it to be - whether you want to home school, grow your own vegies and teach the kids to make their own clothes and knit blankets for the poor, or maybe you want to send them to the best high tech schools to become brainy heart surgeons, or to just be normal, suburban loving families like most of us - its all good. But what do you want for your family?
God gave us an imagination and creativity - he reminds you of it everyday in the faces of your children who are each unique in looks, personality and demeanor... and temptations. And each of them requires something different from you too, whether to be soft in discipline or strong, whether to laugh when they trip, or to hug... seriously my little girl used to say when she fell over "it didn't hurt, it was fun!"
I love that God made us creative, but we also need to be discerning, what is God's Spirit speaking into your heart about your kids when you take the time to listen?
He has creative amazing answers for your kids, creative ways to have fun, creative ways to train, creative ways to teach and to dream with them. He loves your kids so much. He loves them so much that He made you their mum - because He knows that you and only you can be the mum he needs you to be for them.
You have what it takes! What can you do differently this week? What do you need to apply creativity to? God has an amazing future for your family, and He has an amazing NOW for your family too.
Much blessings,
Sarah
Friday, December 3, 2010
40 days of Christmas
http://notwant.blogspot.com/
Hey:) I'd love for you to check out the new blog that my husband and I are writing together, and with some guest writers, for the 40 days of Christmas from Christmas Eve until February 1st. Its a journey of change that we want to go on as a family. It will be officially launched on Christmas Eve, but we've posted a few things so that you know what its all about. And then we will definitely be posting our thoughts, our journey, some cool links and quotes and ideas everyday for 40 days.
Really, we'd love to create a movement and get as many people involved as possible, so tell your friends if you like! Who knows what will come out of this? Maybe 2011 will be a year of great change for all of us:)
I hope that you are doing well and that your spirit is prospering.
Much love,
Sarah
Hey:) I'd love for you to check out the new blog that my husband and I are writing together, and with some guest writers, for the 40 days of Christmas from Christmas Eve until February 1st. Its a journey of change that we want to go on as a family. It will be officially launched on Christmas Eve, but we've posted a few things so that you know what its all about. And then we will definitely be posting our thoughts, our journey, some cool links and quotes and ideas everyday for 40 days.
Really, we'd love to create a movement and get as many people involved as possible, so tell your friends if you like! Who knows what will come out of this? Maybe 2011 will be a year of great change for all of us:)
I hope that you are doing well and that your spirit is prospering.
Much love,
Sarah
Thursday, December 2, 2010
Grace and holidays
Soon we'll be visiting our favourite secret secluded holiday spot for a good rest and refresh. I wrote this last time we had the pleasure of staying there.
One afternoon I half jogged, half walked, down to the beach to see the final stages of sunset, just a few moments before dinner was needed to be put on and Simeon to be fed. Mark had just rushed back from the beach to give me the opportunity to see the sunset and have a quick breather.
As I came over the sand dune I saw a rainbow over the expanse of the ocean, and another part rainbow on top of it. I could see all the colours, purple, red, orange, yellow, green, blue, lilac. It was as if the rainbow were singing over that beach and landing in the trees near the rocks at the end of the beach.
As I gazed at the rainbow and the waves glistening in the light of the sunset, washing up on the shore and washing over footprints and disheveled sand, smoothing away the traffic of the day, I think of God's promise to never flood us away again. The rainbow, the message of the cross, that He won't flood us away, that He washes our sins away and won't hold them against us.
A couple walks past me, have they seen the rainbow? Are they walking by enjoying their walk but oblivious to the amazing beauty set before them? Although it feels like this experience is just for me, it's available to all of us on the beach that day.
Just before I turn to go back I spot something in the waves. Could it be? Then on the next wave I see the dark shadows diving through the waves, their fins exposed just above the surface. Dolphins diving and spinning and turning. Diving over the waves and then riding them up the beach. I watch as they dive over and over through the waves on their journey from one end of the beach to the other, flipping over on their tummies, enjoying the last warm rays of the sun, dancing under the rainbow. A whole family of dolphins swimming together, enjoying creation together.
The couple are now almost to the end of the beach, they've missed this beautiful sight. I want to call out to them, but it's too far to call, and instead I just stand there in awe of
His creation, filled with joy while caught in this moment.
The family of dolphins are disappearing from view and I turn to catch the fading pinks and hues of purple. As I turn to walk back a tiny bird hops across my path wagging it's little blue tail.
He has given us this beautiful life and tied it up with a bow, a promise of forgiveness and grace and eternity, if I only we stop and receive it, it's available for us.
As the darkness deepens, I see the lights of the house glowing up the road, calling me home. My pace quickens as I think of my family waiting for me, their beaming smiles, the giggles, the tight squeezes, and I'm filled with joy to meet them and tell them what an amazing sunset I've seen.
One afternoon I half jogged, half walked, down to the beach to see the final stages of sunset, just a few moments before dinner was needed to be put on and Simeon to be fed. Mark had just rushed back from the beach to give me the opportunity to see the sunset and have a quick breather.
As I came over the sand dune I saw a rainbow over the expanse of the ocean, and another part rainbow on top of it. I could see all the colours, purple, red, orange, yellow, green, blue, lilac. It was as if the rainbow were singing over that beach and landing in the trees near the rocks at the end of the beach.
As I gazed at the rainbow and the waves glistening in the light of the sunset, washing up on the shore and washing over footprints and disheveled sand, smoothing away the traffic of the day, I think of God's promise to never flood us away again. The rainbow, the message of the cross, that He won't flood us away, that He washes our sins away and won't hold them against us.
A couple walks past me, have they seen the rainbow? Are they walking by enjoying their walk but oblivious to the amazing beauty set before them? Although it feels like this experience is just for me, it's available to all of us on the beach that day.
Just before I turn to go back I spot something in the waves. Could it be? Then on the next wave I see the dark shadows diving through the waves, their fins exposed just above the surface. Dolphins diving and spinning and turning. Diving over the waves and then riding them up the beach. I watch as they dive over and over through the waves on their journey from one end of the beach to the other, flipping over on their tummies, enjoying the last warm rays of the sun, dancing under the rainbow. A whole family of dolphins swimming together, enjoying creation together.
The couple are now almost to the end of the beach, they've missed this beautiful sight. I want to call out to them, but it's too far to call, and instead I just stand there in awe of
His creation, filled with joy while caught in this moment.
The family of dolphins are disappearing from view and I turn to catch the fading pinks and hues of purple. As I turn to walk back a tiny bird hops across my path wagging it's little blue tail.
He has given us this beautiful life and tied it up with a bow, a promise of forgiveness and grace and eternity, if I only we stop and receive it, it's available for us.
As the darkness deepens, I see the lights of the house glowing up the road, calling me home. My pace quickens as I think of my family waiting for me, their beaming smiles, the giggles, the tight squeezes, and I'm filled with joy to meet them and tell them what an amazing sunset I've seen.
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